Isn’t it kind of funny when those thoughts of a guy you encountered in your past enter your head? Of those little moments, that maybe weren’t major or of huge importance, but stay in your mind forever.
You may look back at them and smile, or maybe think wistfully about what you would have done differently. Would you say something else to them on your first meeting, or would your actions be different, giving them another perception of you? Would you change some of the decisions you made, avoiding silly little mistakes? Or would you do everything the same way, thankful of the impact it had on your life?
I’ve recently found myself looking back or reminiscing often, smiling over the good and funny things, questioning myself over the silly and maybe unfair things. Thinking of the guys who never became a part of my life, but provided me with unforgettable encounters – the cute faces I’ll never see again and the ones never destined to be my friend. Wondering about the ones who were a part of my life, but a relationship was never meant to be.
Memories are treasures you can never take away, and those past actions can never change. However, having them in mind can be a blessing, preventing you making the same mistakes, leaving you ready to create new moments with the next guy who comes along.
Inside My Head 