Stop constantly getting at me. I hate that you get at me to complain, but you’re not actually doing anything to try to help. Others have done what they can to give me a helping hand, but not you.
You think you know what’s going on. You think I’m lazy, but that is so far from the truth. I dislike the situation I’m in far more than you do and I really want to do something about.
However, you haven’t stopped to consider what’s holding me back. There is a lack of confidence, low self-esteem and a fear of rejection that I’m trying to work through, but you don’t see that. You simply don’t understand.
You need to realise that what I need more than anything is your help, support and guidance. I just want you to give me the helping hand and slight push that I so desperately need.
So until you make the time to actually listen to what I’m saying and offer me some help, stop getting at me. Just stop it; because it makes me feel a whole lot worse and that is the last thing I need…